Sunday, April 7, 2013

My take on relationships

Okay, so I was showering like 20mins ago and I had a eureka moment. I had a sudden realization of my view on relationships. It's like not very significant la cause it's supposed to be subconscious right? But I have always been very unsure of what relationships should be like so it's like a pretty big deal to me okay! HAHA


For me, I feel that the first six months after getting together, a couple should continue trying to 'impress' and get the other person's attention. So that after that 6 months, when the honeymoon period starts to fade off, the couple will have strong feelings for each other. Such as feeling their absence, appreciating their presence and not be tempted by any forms of flirting by other people. BUT the first six months of flirting right, should not include the time you try to chase one another. It should only start counting after you get together. In this time and day where people fuck before knowing names, seems hard eh.


My ideal relationship is not one where you can't live without each other but when you are together, everything just seem so much better. One here you share every detail of your day with, all your deepest secrets and fears. It should be a very comforting friendship plus romance like friends and lovers all in one. I want a person that I can talk to all day long and never get bored but instead miss him like crazy when he isn't around. I want someone that I can just wear a huge t-shirt, bun my hair and be makeup-less around and just laze around the house the whole day. Someone to cook with, kiss at all the odd hours of the day. I wish for a relationship that is caring, emotionally stable and intense all at the same time. Like greedy eh?


Okay, I am feeling dehydrated from taking that super hot shower. Going to make myself a cup of greentea and go to bed. My sleeping hours are fucked. Haha goodnight!